The first meeting is the key step from 'information on paper' to real understanding. Good preparation puts both of you at ease.
Place and time
Choose a quiet, public spot like a café or restaurant, and keep it short to leave room for a next time.
Safety first — let a friend or family member know your plans.
What and how to talk
Start with light topics — hobbies, lifestyle, plans for the future. Sincere listening beats trying to impress.
Don't grill them about income or property up front; ease in gradually for a more natural conversation.
FAQ
- Should we split the bill on a first meeting?
- There's no single rule; what matters is being natural and respectful — any approach that shows sincerity and equality works.
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